Derek Jeter and the Yankees appear to be getting closer to a contract agreement, but a source says that the free-agent shortstop still needs a reality check. Talks between the two sides this week led to New York saying they'll sweeten their initial three-year, $45 million contract offer. "He can't seem to get to where this thing has to get to, meaning taking less money than he's making now, until he gets it into his head that it's not 10 years ago," the source said. "These people who are superstars, who live a different life and everyone's telling them they're the best, it's hard for them to psychologically get their arms around it. It's part of what makes him a great competitor. But until he comes to grips with that, they're not going to make a deal."